20 Pieces Of Advice For You 20-Somethings

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Lets be honest, our 20’s is the most confusing and  most ridiculous part of any ones lives, I mean ask your parents, Im sure they feel the same and they can tell you all the the fun and all the confusion they had when they were in their 20’s (my mom tells me all the time, I dont have to ask her). I recently turned 25 this past year and its all such a haze, I felt like everything went by too fast and the past years were just wasted on drinking beer and figuring out “the next step” in my life. Although I wasn’t  really the type of person to plan ahead, I questioned a lot of things thought about making momentous  strides, some strides I won, some I fell flat on my face, there was a high and low all the time and I didn’t know how to take it. Now its a little different as those years passed and I stumble on 25, a bunch revelation just came rushing in. So here is my 20 advice to being in your early twenties for you millennials going through it.

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  1. It’s okay that you don’t have your shit together, a lot of people in their 20’s don’t.
  2. It’s sucks that you don’t but don’t envy those around you, use it to motivate you to be where you want to be.
  3. This is the time where you could be completely whoever you want to be. It’s okay to not know who you are.
  4. Don’t be afraid of change. Change of job, school, your degree, relationships. Sometimes they lead you to something even better.
  5. This is the perfect time to go through your slutty phase. Try and sleep with whoever you want (safe sex that is) get it out your system.
  6. You don’t have to commit to anything as much. You don’t have any attachment to anything so try and do things you always want to do. Explore.
  7. Open a credit card or anything to start your credit with.
  8. Build a circle of friends that you can call a second home.
  9. Learn to RSVP.
  10. You don’t have the same tenacity as you were when you were young, get in the habit of working out and eating healthy.
  11. Learn to keep your bedroom clean.
  12. Quarter life crisis does happen, go with it.
  13. When moving to a new apartment, get yourself a toolbox, a can opener and scissors, you’re all set my friend.
  14. Don’t judge people based on their appearance, judge them based on their actions.
  15. 15.Drink a ton of water.
  16. Have sex, often.
  17. When opportunity comes knocking, open the door and welcome her in open arms, don let doubt hold you back.
  18. You will meet someone and you will fall in love with them and they will too. One day one of you will realize that its not meant to be. Its okay, learn to mold your broken heart.
  19. Justine Bieber couldn’t have sang it better, “Love Yourself”
  20. Never ever deny yourself the beautiful things, places, books, memories, experiences and people life has to offer. Honey, you’re only 20’s once.

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